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Ep. 1: What's in Mai's head?

As I navigate through life, I am constantly torn between these two desires - the desire for independence and the longing for close connections. It's a delicate balance strike, one that often leaves me grappling with conflicting emotions. Yet, amidst this internal struggle, I find solace in the moments spent with those I cherish. Their presence reminds me of the importance of human connections and the warmth they bring to my life.

Despite the challenges and uncertainties that lie ahead, I am determined to carve out a path that honors both my need for freedom and my deep-rooted bonds with my loved ones. It's a journey of self-discovery and growth, one that I embrace wholeheartedly. In the end, it is these experiences that shape us, molding us into the individuals we are meant to become.

I am looking forward to the productive version of myself, where I can continue pursuing my degree and chasing my dreams while striving for financial independence. I eagerly anticipate the emergence of the successful woman within me, one who not only achieves her goals but also inspires others to do the same. With determination as my compass and resilience as my armor, I am ready to embark on this journey toward self-fulfillment and empowerment. There may be obstacles along the way, but I am steadfast in my resolve to overcome them and emerge stronger on the other side. 

Growing up, I couldn't use being the only daughter as an excuse to neglect my responsibility to take care of my family's well-being. As the eldest child, I couldn't bear the thought of my younger siblings struggling and feeling constrained in their pursuits. I want them to explore their potential without limitations. I long to witness their success and achievements, even if it means they surpass me. It's a source of pride and joy to see them thrive, and I'm committed to supporting them every step of the way. After all, their triumphs are not only a reflection of their capabilities but also a testament to the values installed in our family.

I may not be financially stable at the moment, but my mother has always reminded me that I am the only one they can depend on. Though the road ahead may be daunting, I draw strength from my mother's faith in me.


Have you ever thought about it as I do? 
How do you define success for yourself?
What advice would you give to others who may be facing similar struggles or aspirations in finding balance and fulfillment in life?

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